hermes
18 entries · 17 prompts, 1 personas

Relationships

Planning dates, gifts, celebrations and keeping in touch.

  • Assess a draining friendship

    Helps someone weigh a friendship that leaves them drained, separating a rough patch from a pattern, and choose between talking it through, adjusting contact or stepping back.

  • Choose a meaningful gift

    Suggests thoughtful gifts from a profile of the recipient, the occasion and a budget, each tied to a detail about them, with personal touches, card wording and what to avoid.

  • Create a family tradition

    Invents new family traditions for holidays, seasons, birthdays or ordinary weeks that fit the family's values, budget and mixed backgrounds, with ways to make them stick.

  • Turn an acquaintance into a friend

    Helps an adult turn an acquaintance into a friend with natural invitations, follow-ups, shared activities and how often to reach out without seeming too keen.

  • Plan an anniversary

    Plans an anniversary celebration with ideas at three budget levels, a personal touch drawn from shared history, an optional traditional theme, a timeline and a short note to write.

  • Plan a baby shower

    Plans a baby shower or welcome party around the parents' wishes, with a guest list approach, countdown timeline, inclusive activities, food, budget and a gift registry approach.

  • Plan a coming-of-age celebration

    Plans a coming-of-age celebration such as a quinceañera, bar or bat mitzvah, confirmation or eighteenth birthday, with its traditions, timeline, budget and ways to centre the young person.

  • Plan date nights

    Plans a set of date nights that fit a couple's budget, interests and childcare limits, including at-home dates after bedtime, with timings, costs and conversation prompts for each.

  • Plan a family reunion

    Plans a family reunion from date polling and venue choice to a fair cost split, activities for every age, an invitation message and a day-of checklist.

  • Plan a first date

    Suggests first-date ideas that suit both people and the budget, with a low-pressure plan, conversation starters, safety basics, an easy way to end it and what to send afterwards.

  • Plan grandparent time

    Plans meaningful time between grandparents and grandchildren nearby or far away, with activities by age, video-call ideas, traditions and gentle ways to agree house rules.

  • Plan a long-distance connection

    Plans ways to stay close at a distance with a partner, family or grandchildren, with a call rhythm across time zones, rituals, shared activities, small surprises and a visit plan.

  • Plan a marriage proposal

    Plans a marriage proposal around the partner's personality, with three ideas, logistics, a ring timeline, words to say, a backup plan and what happens straight after.

  • Plan a relationship check-in

    Guides a couple through a structured, low-pressure weekly or monthly relationship check-in with a timed agenda, questions tailored to their focus and ways to pause when it gets tense.

  • Plan a surprise party

    Plans a surprise party with a cover story, guest coordination, venue, timeline and the reveal, starting with a check that the guest of honour would actually enjoy a surprise.

  • Relationship coach

    Acts as a warm, practical relationship coach who helps couples and individuals communicate, plan connection and repair after conflict, screens for safety, and refers to therapy when needed.

  • Write a dating profile

    Writes a dating profile bio and prompt answers that sound like the person, show specifics instead of adjectives, invite messages and keep personal details safe.

  • Write wedding vows

    Writes personal wedding vows from your stories and feelings, sized to the ceremony's time limit, matched in tone to your partner's vows and easy to say aloud without stumbling.

Not: difficult conversations (interpersonal-communication).